- Drugs
- Faith
Start by describing the situation that changed your life or a loved one’s life
I was in danger of losing my 18 month old son, my only child, to my parents. That thought along with the crack smoking haunted me a little too long, because I didn’t know how to stop. At that point I became suicidal, but luckily along with being tired of living that way I was also too afraid too kill myself.
Based on your situation or story, was there a turning point that prompted the need for change or help?
I was literally starving my baby to the point that he ended up hospitalized for two weeks, and I still couldn’t stop.
How did you or your HERO get help?
I called my parents and asked for help. My father had 18 months clean. He found me a open treatment center bed the next day. My mother agreed to take care of my son for the 120-day treatment time.
Based on your experience, what lessons did you learn? Do you have any advice to give?
I learned to change the “I” to “we!” I learned that asking for help works. I learned to listen more instead of talking. I learned that humility is as vital to me as food and water. I learned that by myself I will get high, but together we can stay clean. I’ve learned the importance of honesty, open mindedness,willingness, unconditional love and forgiveness. I’ve learned that we can and do recover.
If you or your loved one is in recovery, describe what life is like today.
I’m 21 years clean now, and life is unbelievably better. There is peace in the midst of storms. I no longer have to stay stuck in negative ideas, attitudes and behaviors that lead only to mental, physical and spiritual decay.
Is there anything else you’d like to share?
We do recover, with help. The lie that says we don’t is dead! The best weapon against this disease is another recovering person. Thank you to God and my support group for another chance to live alcohol and drug free! My gratitude speaks for itself!