- Alcohol
Gary W.’s Story
I am a 54 year-old male who lives in Texas (and has for 20+ years), but I’m originally from New York. I’ve been drinking, mainly beer, for 35 years. I would wake up, have my coffee, then start drinking. I knew I had a problem but convinced myself I was OK, though deep down I KNEW I wasn’t OK. After raising a son and having two failed marriages, I met a wonderful woman. My drinking continued and the relationship was ending due to my drinking. My son also was warning me about it too, and I had a grandbaby on the way.
The relationship with the woman ended even though we both loved each other deeply. She was the love of my life. I hit rock bottom. I knew I had to quit if I wanted something from life, but most importantly, this time I WANTED to quit! I moved back to New York and stayed with family for six months. With support from my brother (who was very understanding, helpful and supportive), and the love and support of the love of my life, I did quit drinking!! It has been four years without a drop; I don’t even want any more beer or alcohol. I am now back in Texas with my best friend, lover and soul mate, and we are extremely happy. I have a great loving relationship with my son, plus I love being able to enjoy the time with my granddaughter!! Sometimes I look back and think about the years I wasted away drinking; my only worry then was wondering where I was going to get my beer for the day. I don’t dwell on it though. I am just extremely happy now with my life and that is what I dwell on.